Converting your man to a House Husband in a Female Led Relationship

Why The Rising Trend Of House Husbands And Their Working Wives Is Here To Stay

Original Article: https://www.bollywoodshaadis.com/articles/rising-trend-of-house-husbands-and-their-working-wives-2903

We have heard the terms- “stay-at-home wives”, “soccer moms”, “trophy wives”, etc. But what would be your expressions when we say, “stay-at-home husbands”, “soccer dads”, “trophy husbands”?

The Female Led Relationship Trend

With women sharing equal workplace responsibilities, they no longer allow their dreams and careers to wither after getting married or having a family. With gender equality triumphing, now when a couple is blessed with a child, the possibilities are noted, odds are measured, and worth is weighed, and only then it is decided who will take the burden of financial responsibilities and who will take over the household ones.

No more does a ‘house husband’ mean that he does not bring a pay cheque home. With technological advancement and numerous ‘work from home’ opportunities, many fathers are working from home, as well as taking care of their family. Similarly even artists, designers and writers work from home. The best example that you can find in our modern India, is the world-renowned, best-selling author Chetan Bhagat who is a happy stay-at-home husband. While his wife Anusha works full-time and has a very successful career, he quit his well-paid bank job to care for their twin sons and concentrate on writing.

Now, as more and more women are getting opportunities to explore their potential to its limit, in many cases they do come out to be the better financial option amongst the two partners. Being the better choice, they go out to face problems of the outside world while their men stay indoors to tackle the household problems.

Women looking for a House Husband

Women are much more cautious than men when it comes to handling household finances and expenditures. Being good at multi-tasking, a mother is better at handling certain problems, such as spending time with family, segregating family and work spaces, making necessary monetary sacrifices, and setting a budget, which in most cases a working man might fail to achieve.

Male Chastity for the House Husband

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Benefits and Perceived Risks of “House Husbands”

  • A man sacrificing his career to give his woman a chance to realise her dreams is a message of equality. For far too long, women have suffered unfairly the conventional ideas of being “just a homemaker”, and sidelined their ambitions. It is now time for a change.
  • As we said before, women are much more careful when it comes to unnecessary expenditure and budgets. Women taking the financial burden of the family only means strengthening the family’s financial backing.
  • In many modern families, where both parents are working, kids are often left with maids or at day cares. This means, an additional burden on the family’s finance. With one parent staying at home, the expenditure of extra help can be avoided.
  • When couples swap the traditional roles of being the “breadwinner” and the “homemaker”, they begin to respect each other more. They understand the responsibilities and pressures that these roles bring with them. Once a man takes to the household chores, he respects the women around him much more.
  • Whether he becomes a househusband by his choice or through circumstance, socially this idea is still looked down. This leaves many men feeling powerless in their home as well as in the society.
  • When a man turns into a house husband due to certain unfavourable circumstances, it leaves him feeling weak and depressed. He links his “worth” to his inability to provide for his family’s financial needs. Economic dependence at times, leaves a man’s masculinity shaken as well.

Our suggestion to you ladies, talk to your husband openly without making assumptions of what they, or others, will say. You never know your Mr. Right might surprise you with his understanding and compassionate nature!

Milf looking for FLR and House Husband

About this blog.

I have found great joy and pleasure in training my man to surrender his traditional gender role and become my partner in a Female Led Relationship. Although it took time, patience, and effort, it has been the most rewarding endeavor I have ever set off on. As I progressed on this journey, i took bits and pieces of advice from hundreds of blogs on the subject and spent time conversing with other women who have embraced their role as a leader and alpha-female. I’ve spent 100’s of hours reading, chatting, and researching this subject. And almost as many hours setting wheels in motion and laying the groundwork that molded our relationship into what I wanted it to be. If not for the assistance of like minded women, I fear I would have never made it to where I am now. I believe in passing forward and hope to use this medium to encourage and “coach” other women to pursue a relationship where women lead and men obediently follow. 

Where am I now, you ask?  I am currently enjoying the undivided attention of the man I love, while also exploring my alpha side. In this blog I will attempt to share the ins and outs of the this growing lifestyle with anyone who is interested in learning more about making this dream a reality. And specifically share my personal experiences and feelings on this trend. As women outpace men in education, leadership positions in corporate America, political offices, and out earn our male counterparts, it is only natural that we extend our superiority to our personal lives. Female Led Relationships are more common then you think and growing at an exorbitant rate.

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