Empowered Cuckoldress

From Fetlife User @kbangz

One way in which we view our cuckolding relationship eloquently paraphrased:

“The only thing sexier than a nice, big cock is seeing my husband’s twitch helplessly for me.”


For many couples, the appeal of cuckolding isn’t to replace something missing, it’s to create a new dynamic. At the core of this experience is the empowerment of the the wife through becoming a hotwife – a sexually liberated married (or otherwise committed) woman. This empowerment is often so attractive to her because she has traditionally not been the more dominant partner in the relationship and it’s the empowerment which drives her interest in cuckolding her husband more than the opportunity to invite another male inside her.

Take one couple for example: both attractive people in their 30s, she was a tall and slender sandy blonde with breasts perfectly proportional to her frame. He was tall with athletic build and big cock. However, she explained that he couldn’t fuck her longer than ten minutes. What she say was that before she began fucking other men in front of him, he could fuck her as long as he wanted to.

So what happened? Empowerment expressed as a power exchange.

Sharing her was at first a fantasy neither one of them expected to become a reality, but once he admitted to her how much he enjoyed it when men tried to seduce her, the pillow talk and fantasies gave her a clear path to being empowered. She recognized the intensity of this fantasy for him and how it could be used to bargain his behavior and used that to negate his tendency to only take the pillow talk to a certain point of arousal before he would assert control so he could fuck her. Tying him to the sort of reclining lounge chair one finds by the pool became the only way she could explore these ideas with him without him just taking her when he wanted to. Being free to explore ideas and tease her husband, she quickly realized how certain topics, certain ideas rapidly pushed him toward the cliff of orgasm. She would often mount him, cowgirl, while he was bound to the lounge chair, and use his cock like a dildo, but even when she controlled the pace, only a few of the right words could send him over the edge. She then began hand training him – using her hand to tease him instead of riding him, hoping he’d last longer that way – somehow that got him off even faster. Now I understand why, but at the time that mad no sense to me. She became much more fascinated by her ability to have such sexual control over her otherwise dominant husband and his impressive cock than by the option to allow someone else to seduce her (or think he had).

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It didn’t take her long to realize that she always had to give in, in the end, to get fucked, but it was a very short coupling – too short. To work around that they tried lovemaking without the teasing and pillow talk, but found that lacking. The only way to enjoy her teased male and enjoy being fucked by one was to invite another male into their marriage. Doing that meant she could fully explore stripping her husband of his sexual prowess.

Learning to uncouple the idea of being inside his wife simply because he’s erect and desires her is much more challenging for both when he’s above average, but doing so becomes twice as rewarding.

Is the phrase “rob him of his sexual prowess” still reverberating inside your mind? I know it sounds cruel to some, but done within the context of a loving, hotwife/cuckold relationship, it’s simply another way to express a submissive role on behalf of the husband and way for his hotwife to feel empowered. This energy even transfers to the boyfriend if/when he becomes aware that his play with the wife has enabled her to further the necessity of his role in their marriage.

I was told I was the third guy to play with her (them). We always played together and he was always bound to the chair, on a towel, while watching us. I usually started with her in missionary, but she always wanted to ride me so she could look at her cuckold and taunt him. He would be leaking mostly constantly and she would sometimes slip off my cock and go over to him and tease him physically in her hands or even mount him briefly before returning to me. I believe it was those moments forever captured in his mind that robbed him of his stamina. Even when alone with her and free of any teasing by her, those memories and images couldn’t be escaped. To paraphrase his wife, “The only thing sexier than a nice, big cock is seeing my husband’s twitch helplessly for me.”

They told me he only got her hand or his own while she was ‘seeing someone’, but I don’t really know if that was true or something they told me to make me feel special. She did demonstrate how easily she could make him spurt – rather like the video below, though he was already quite erect when she started.

This is obviously not an actual couple (porn couple), but the situation is valid and mirrors what I experienced with my second couple. I was little more than a living dildo for her and we really never had much of a gf/bf kind of thing. Even though it was hot to fuck her like that while it lasted, I’d have to say I’ve gained more from it in hindsight than I did in the moment.

I’ve talked to a number of couples who have discovered this dynamic and actively pursued it, including one just recently. Though it’s intense to consider the idea that such a shift in his sexual stamina is permanent, it’s most likely not, but while his wife feels empowered to rob him of it, that’s very likely to happen!

Converting your man to a House Husband in a Female Led Relationship

Why The Rising Trend Of House Husbands And Their Working Wives Is Here To Stay

Original Article: https://www.bollywoodshaadis.com/articles/rising-trend-of-house-husbands-and-their-working-wives-2903

We have heard the terms- “stay-at-home wives”, “soccer moms”, “trophy wives”, etc. But what would be your expressions when we say, “stay-at-home husbands”, “soccer dads”, “trophy husbands”?

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With women sharing equal workplace responsibilities, they no longer allow their dreams and careers to wither after getting married or having a family. With gender equality triumphing, now when a couple is blessed with a child, the possibilities are noted, odds are measured, and worth is weighed, and only then it is decided who will take the burden of financial responsibilities and who will take over the household ones.

No more does a ‘house husband’ mean that he does not bring a pay cheque home. With technological advancement and numerous ‘work from home’ opportunities, many fathers are working from home, as well as taking care of their family. Similarly even artists, designers and writers work from home. The best example that you can find in our modern India, is the world-renowned, best-selling author Chetan Bhagat who is a happy stay-at-home husband. While his wife Anusha works full-time and has a very successful career, he quit his well-paid bank job to care for their twin sons and concentrate on writing.

Now, as more and more women are getting opportunities to explore their potential to its limit, in many cases they do come out to be the better financial option amongst the two partners. Being the better choice, they go out to face problems of the outside world while their men stay indoors to tackle the household problems.

Women looking for a House Husband

Women are much more cautious than men when it comes to handling household finances and expenditures. Being good at multi-tasking, a mother is better at handling certain problems, such as spending time with family, segregating family and work spaces, making necessary monetary sacrifices, and setting a budget, which in most cases a working man might fail to achieve.

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Benefits and Perceived Risks of “House Husbands”

  • A man sacrificing his career to give his woman a chance to realise her dreams is a message of equality. For far too long, women have suffered unfairly the conventional ideas of being “just a homemaker”, and sidelined their ambitions. It is now time for a change.
  • As we said before, women are much more careful when it comes to unnecessary expenditure and budgets. Women taking the financial burden of the family only means strengthening the family’s financial backing.
  • In many modern families, where both parents are working, kids are often left with maids or at day cares. This means, an additional burden on the family’s finance. With one parent staying at home, the expenditure of extra help can be avoided.
  • When couples swap the traditional roles of being the “breadwinner” and the “homemaker”, they begin to respect each other more. They understand the responsibilities and pressures that these roles bring with them. Once a man takes to the household chores, he respects the women around him much more.
  • Whether he becomes a househusband by his choice or through circumstance, socially this idea is still looked down. This leaves many men feeling powerless in their home as well as in the society.
  • When a man turns into a house husband due to certain unfavourable circumstances, it leaves him feeling weak and depressed. He links his “worth” to his inability to provide for his family’s financial needs. Economic dependence at times, leaves a man’s masculinity shaken as well.

Our suggestion to you ladies, talk to your husband openly without making assumptions of what they, or others, will say. You never know your Mr. Right might surprise you with his understanding and compassionate nature!

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A Superior Queen of Spades always locks her cuckold in male chastity

 

More and more femdom’s are keeping their cuckold in extended durations of Male Chastity. Orgasm control and denial is the cornerstone of a Female Led Relationship – AKA a “Modern Marriage”

Want a Cuckolding Marriage? They all start with a helpless, locked, limp, white cock!

Need a male chastity device? Visit the Female Led Store and begin your journey towards a Modern Marriage!

 

 

Locked in Male Chastity – “What are you going to do about it” Part 1

Male Chastity

This male chastity thing had gotten way out of hand. After two weeks locked up at the hands of your wife, you’ve found yourself becoming more of a maid then a husband, doing all the laundry, dishes, picking up your wife’s dry cleaning, while she spent more time in the gym chatting with the likes of Cheryl. Being brainwashed by Cheryl, you thought. You finally summoned the nerve to confront Cheryl, the one who has been feeding your wife stories about the benefits of male chastity, while encouraging her to stay strong, despite your objections, and keep you locked. You imagined that your visit would rattle her and she’d back down and stop feeding your wife these stories. Unfortunately, it did not go as expected. When you laid your eyes on Cheryl your mind went blank. You felt your little cock try to bulge within the confines of the cage. You attempted to spit out the speech you had rehearsed, but the words were jumbled. They made no sense. Her eyes seem to look right into your soul. In your head, you imagined you’d show up, put on some tough guy act, and convince Cheryl to leave you and your wife alone. You realized your knees where shaking and you stuttered and mumbled a bunch of gibberish. Cheryl exuded self confidence and you felt foolish. You suddenly understood how she so expertly convinced your wife to lock up your useless cock and take over your marriage. Foolish and weak as nonsensical words poured out your mouth. You finally managed to spit out the words you came to say – “Um, Cheryl, I want you to stay away from my wife and stop meddling in our marriage”. The words came out weak. She sensed your fear and growing insecurity. She snickered. When she spoke, she was kind but firm. Almost condescending. Her confidence never wavered. Almost as if she knew you were defeated.

“I’m sorry you feel that way, but I won’t sever my friendship with your wife. Instead, I am going to help her get obtain the marriage that she has longed for and deserves”

You felt your face going flush, but no words came to mind. You were frozen in fear before this powerful woman. She observed you, slumped, defeated, humbled, knees shaking like a scared little boy. A bitch if you will. Her face took on a more serious expression as did the tone of the next words out of her mouth.

“I understand this is not the outcome you were looking for, but it’s how it’s going to be – Is that a problem for you? Are you going to do something about it?”

She stood staring a hole through you. Waiting for your response. Are you going to do something about it? You knew this was a pivotal moment that would define your relationship with your wife forever. You thought about your options for what seemed like an eternity. You knew the answer and the next words you muttered would betray your manhood, your pride, and your little cock that you knew was going to be forever at the mercy of your wife. The realization that this woman had just totally emasculated you caused a shiver to go up and down your spine. There was nothing else for you to say.

“Well?”

Cheryl said in an even more serious tone :

“What are you going to do about it?”

You didn’t hesitate this time:

“Nothing Cheryl. I’m not going to do anything about it”

“Exactly”

She said with a smirk that only served to further cement your new status in your head.

“Now that we have cleared that up, drop your pants. I want to see your chastity device

You hesitated as you looked for the courage to deny her demand. Just turn around and leave, you thought to yourself. She raised an eyebrow at you. You swallowed hard. You couldn’t believe you were about to do this. Yes, two weeks without so much of an erection had left you emotionally weak and vulnerable, but this was to much. You felt the last of your male pride leaving your body. She waited. She was so fucking confident. It was as if she had no doubt that your would betray the last of your masculinity. You felt powerless. You felt your hands fumbling to loosen your belt. With hands shaking you released you freed the belt and unbuckled your pants. Again you felt the redness return to your face. You could not believe this was happening. In your wildest dreams, you never expected nor planned on sharing this part of yourself with another woman. Much less with the woman you felt was responsible for brainwashing your wife. You were to weak to resist as you unbuckled your pants and dropped them in front of this woman whom you met only five minutes ago. You stood there motionless as she observed your little cock swelling in the confines of the cage. 

“It looks perfect”, she said as she giggled at your predicament. 

“Stand Still”, she ordered as she pulled out her phone and snapped a picture of your locked manhood. 

You came to confront Cheryl with the expectation of being in control and convincing her to stay away from your wife. Unfortunately, you made a big mistake. 

“You can go now” Cheryl said. 

You turned and left with your tail tucked between your legs. You have never been so humiliated. As you walked away feeling a deep sense of shame and hopelessness. 

To Be Continued.

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