This is what I’d call a near perfect fitting of a male chastity device. When in doubt, go smaller. Although the male may protest, once fitted, the cock and balls will ultimately be more comfortable. It is imperative that pubic hair be shaved or trimmed very shorty. Here you can see that there is no hair to be pulled or tangled in the mechanism, His small penis has no room to grow, hence a more comfortable feeling for both of you. Finally, not how the steel lock has been secured to the device with a simple rubber band. This prevents the lock from clanking against the steel while in public. There is absolutely no reason that this device cannot stay on for days at a time. 

At first, many men struggle with the reality that she has chosen not to use your cock anymore. As we evolve and more and more wives make the decision to pursue a “Modern Marriage”, It’s important to remember that just because your cock is no longer allowed in her pussy, that does not diminish her love for you. She will always want and love you. In fact in most cases her love for you will go stronger. In fact, if she didn’t deny you and take better equipped lovers, she would always resent you and the marriage would be strained. By making the decision to lock and deny you,she is doing you both a huge favor and she should be applauded for making this effort. Being locked up and denied pussy does not mean she doesn’t want you anymore. While your cock is relegated to a cage, you can still please her in many other ways. In a “Modern Marriage” the husband can still do the housework and all her errands. You are also perfectly capable of proving her with unlimited oral sex and without the expectation of cumming, all your focus will be on pleasing her. This means that your oral skills and willingness to perform will improve to levels you never dreamed possible. While you were once reluctant to worship her ass, you’ll now jump at the opportunity. Your desire to please her will grow each and every day that you’re locked up. Her decision to lock you and assume the alpha role in your marriage is natural and studies show this practice is becoming more and more common in marriages where the white male is under endowed. Always remember that it is not her fault that you have a small white cock, and she should not be deprived of real sex because of it. Support her decision and make the best of the situation. Consider yourself lucky that you have the love of a strong woman, despite your shortcomings. 

This is a look at natural progression. The alpha females of our generation our making their choice on a daily basis. Soon, this is how all modern marriages will look. It is hard to believe that some white men still have problems understanding or accepting the fact that their future is being locked down while we enjoy the superior cocks of hung black men. 

As I’ve stated previously, denying him orgasms for weeks at a time has truly turned him into a domesticated little bitch boy. I thought it only appropriate to get him this apron to wear as he was doing our household chores. I love lounging on the couch watching “real hot wives”, while he dutifully prances around the house in nothing but a little pair of my panties and this apron. Oh, and of course his cock lock. I love teasing him as he’s wearing it:

“Look at what a little bitch you’ve become tee hee”

“Do you think a real man would be cock locked in an apron doing chores? Darnell with the 9″ penis would never to that”

Oh and don’t forget to critique his work. No job is perfect the first time, and I love lecturing him for sub par work. 

“BItch get over here! Look at this spot on the floor you missed! How could you?”

“But it was clean a second ago, are you sure you didn’t just…”

<FEIGNED ANGER> “What??? I suggest you shut the fuck up, get on your knees right now and clean it properly, or you’ll go another week without cumming”

“Yes Ma’am. I’m sorry”

Stand over him with hand on hips as he correct his error. When he’s done make sure he kisses your feet before standing. 

“Now hurry up with the rest of your chores, my feet need rubbing”

Get the point? This can be fun! This type of dialogue will both drive him deeper into submission to your authority and also help bolster your confidence as the leader in this relationship. 

Believe it or not, I have found that his productivity has increased since I’ve required him to wear the apron. The link for this particular item is below, but there are others to that may catch your fancy. My only complaint about this one is it doesn’t come in pink!

Remember, part of taking over your relationship requires that he is constantly reminded of his role as the beta. This apron is sure to further emasculate him and solidify your position in the driver’s seat!

http://www.cafepress.com/+under_lock_key_bbq_apron,75697688

Chastity and Female led relationships revolve around emasculating your man. One sure fire way to jump start his submissive side is to demand that his pubic region remain neat and trimmed to your liking. Whether you choose to trim his hair short, into a nice stripe, or shave him entirely, you, the dominant partner should always have more going on down there then him. Once your man is properly groomed, you will notice an immediate effect on his male ego. From here on out make a point to comment on how cute his little cock looks hairless. You on the other hand can strut around naked and every glimpse he gets of your womanhood will remind him of his status in the relationship. 

It’s not all bad for him though., While trimming or shaving his pubic region will surely be humiliating and emasculating for him, it will also make his chastity device much more comfortable without hair to pull <TEE HEE>. 

In my opinion anything under 7″-8″ erect should be shaved and considered inferior. Look at the pictures above and you won’t have nay trouble identifying where the power and dominance lies.  

Don’t forget to take pictures