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This was his first solid week locked in chastity and the results were amazing. Just like I’ve read. I’ve locked him up for short periods of time before, but this was our first trial period for extended lock up. We started on a Friday evening. The lock snapped shut at 8pm and the only key went around my neck, to be worn for the entire week. By Sunday night the effects began showing. Yes, there was some whining, begging, and general complaining. This was expected. When it got to be to much, I sternly told him to stop or we’d begin adding time. Those words did the the trick each time.
On Monday when he complained about the device pulling on his hairs, I removed it and trimmed most of his hair off, leaving only about ¼ inch. The device went back on right after the shaving. I loved the new “neater” look and thought to myself “this is how all small white cocks should look”. By Tuesday I began seeing a remarkable difference in his behavior and overall attitude. I came home from a long day at work and found all the household chores done. The vacuuming, the dishes, the dusting, almost everything.This was unheard of. It had only been 4 days and I was already loving the results.
We spent the entire evening watching TV while he rubbed my feet. We ended the evening with him lapping my pussy for ½ hour and bringing me to multiple over the top orgasms. This was a turning point for me. If I had ever had any doubt that locking up his cock was the right decision, those doubts were gone. All the articles and stories I read were dead on. I was ecstatic and already began plotting how I would make this “trial period” a permanent arrangement.
The rest of the week saw him submission deepen each and every day. On Wednesday he went to his underwear drawer and found all his boxers replaced with my own panties. With the confused look on his face I crept up behind him and reached around to cup his little locked cock in my hand, I whispered heavy in his ear:
“Honey, with your little cock neatly shaved and locked away, it looks so feminine, so I thought why not take the next step and keep you in panties for the rest of your trial period”
He hesitated only briefly before picking up beautiful green selection and stepping into them. My pussy immediately became moist. I don’t think I have ever been happier in our relationship. The road we were heading down was even better then I had fantasized. I turned him around and pulled out my phone to snap a picture. I wanted this moment saved for ever. He instinctively moved his hands in front of his crotch to cover his panty clad locked cock. In my new realm of female dominance I saw this as an act of disobedience that could not be tolerated. Without thinking I physically pushed him against the wall hard. The look on my face must have been pretty angry, because I recognized the fear in his eyes. I spoke firmly and deliberately:
“Listen to me you bitch! I own that cock and I own you. If you disrespect me like that again you’ll buy yourself another week in lock up. Is that clear?”
“Yes ma’am, I’m sorry” was his only reply.
I slapped his face hard. “Don’t forget who is charge here!”, i said as i fondled the key that hung from around my neck. I took the pics I wanted.
He meekly nodded in agreement. The lack of fight he put up was telling. HIs submission to my verbal and physical attack was feeding my already growing feelings of power and dominance. My emotions were running high and it felt like another milestone moment in our journey towards a Female Led Relationship was unfolding right before me.
I was caught in the moment. Already dressed for the office I quickly removed my pants and threw him on the bed. The events that had led up to this had my pussy sopping wet. I mean I had just slapped him in the face and called him a bitch, and he did nothing.
I mounted his face and began grinding out an orgasm. He didn’t resist. I don’t think he could have if he wanted to. My thighs were clamped around his head and my pussy was ravaging his face.
“You understand you’re my bitch now don’t you?”
“Yeth” all I could hear from under my hungry pussy.
I lifted up for only a second: “What are you to me”
“I’m your bitch” Came his immediate answer.
Perfect I though to myself. I finished and quickly for dressed again and headed off for work.
On my drive in I thought about the scene. First the humiliation he must have felt when I announced that he would be wearing women’s underwear from now on. Then the humbling emotion when I physically pushed him into the wall and slapped his face, before forcibly queening him. Then finally the pictures of his locked, shaved, and pantied cock. I imagine he feared what would happen with those? Who would I show them too?
At this point I knew that this is what I wanted. I wanted this trial period too become a permanent lifestlye. We would both be happier, it would improve our relationship and deepen our love for each other. Studies have shown this to be true and my own experiences reinforced this.
On Friday I spent most of the day at work reading more articles and guides on building a loving Female Led Relationship. Saturday morning, the time we had designated for his release, was coming up and I really didn’t want this to end. Why would I?
- I hadn’t had to do any housework all week. My bitch did it all
- I got waited on hand and foot at night
- Foot rubs and worshipping every night
- And all the oral sex a girl could handle.
It was perfect. If I unlocked him Saturday morning, I feared all the progress we made this week would be in vain, and we’d be starting at square one again. I just couldn’t allow that to happen. But I had given my word at the beginning that this would be a trial period. Of course I could just “Change my mind”, but what if I could make it his idea to continue?
Friday night is here and and my perfectly behaved caged man is at my side. All the housework done, pretty panties covering his weak little white dick. I’m wearing my tightest pajama bottom and stroking his cage, over the panties, and asking if he’s excited about it being removed tomorrow? Of course he is. I’m whispering in his ear how much I’ve enjoyed this week and how I feel we’ve made tremendous strides. His cock is straining against the cage. I tell him he can take of the panties. His cock is oozing with precum. I reach down and wipe a drop of with my finger. I raise my finger to his mouth and he obediently sucks it dry.
I tell him to get on his knees while I remove my pajama bottoms. Constantly reminding him that tomorrow is his big day. I lay back down on the couch, and much like the past week, ask him if he’d like to eat my pussy. Of course the answer is an exuberant “YES”. He begins to approach, but I stop him. “Maybe you should have to wait?”
I turned over and guide head to within inches of my ass. I let my cheeks brush his face and his lips. “How would you like to worship my ass instead?”.
“I’d really rather eat your pussy”
“That’s not an option tonight” I kept my tone friendly but decisive.
“If that’s my only choice then of course I want to worship your ass”
I should point out that in 4 years together, he has never properly worshipped my ass. I think most women who are not in a Female Led Relationship are missing out on this very pleasurable experience. Another reason to chastize your man and make him your bitch.
I brought his face to withing an inch of my ass before stoppng.
“If that’s your only choice? No, you have a much tougher choice to make now bitch. How bad do you want to worship this ass in your face?”
I was stroking his cage. Precum was furiously leaking out. I knew what the answer would be. He was in a frenzied state and would do or say anything.
“Please let me lick your ass”, he begged
Here was the moment of truth:
“Okay, I will let you do that, but in return you have to agree to go one more week in chastity. The choice is yours. You can say no and we’ll stop the teasing tonight and let you cum tomorrow as planned”
During this whole discussion his face was an inch from my ass. I felt each breath against my exposed cheeks.
“I’m sorry honey. I know this is a tough decision. I know how badly you want to lick my asshole, but you also have been waiting to cum tomorrow. You can only have one, what will it be?”
No immediate response. After a few seconds I said “You’ve got 10 seconds to decide”
HIs breath hastened. I began counting down. I got to five then I felt it. His lips on my asshole. Oh my god! I’m overwhelmed! A week ago there would be no chance of him ever eating my ass. Now he’s giving up an orgasm to do it!
“You know what this means honey?”
He murmured a yes as his tongue began exploring my ass.
“Oh baby, I’m very happy with the decision you’ve made. Look at how far we came, and now we have another week to go. I love you my bitch”
I was triumphant. He truly was my bitch and we were on our way to a fulltime FLR. I was true to my word. He didn’t get the privilege of eating my pussy that night, but all efforts were directing at pleasing my previously neglected ass. How humiliating. How degrading. How truly loving. How humbling. I lost track of time as I fell into and out of bliss.
A locked man truly will do anything.
Don’t ever let your man guilt you into allowing him more orgasms then you are comfortable with. Rationing male
orgasms is the only way to establish female authority and will
ultimately improve your relationship. The white penis does not require,
nor deserve, the ability to pleasure himself at will. Given the choice,
he will masturbate daily. Or worse, several times a day. This habit is
counterproductive to the building of a modern female led relationship.
It is a betrayal. Only she knows when the right time is for him to
orgasm and as such, she should be the one deciding when it will
happen.See how she wears that key with pride? There is no reason her
public display should be discouragedMale chastity
is an effective and logical strategy for improving relationship between
the sexes. The power struggle of the sexes is nearing an end and male
chastity has secured the female as the winner. Females have proven to be
the the strongest. The superior. The winners. Don’t let him fight it
and don’t allow him to resist. Just make him surrender to the inevitable
– complete control and denial of his orgasm. It will be easier on both
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Shaving is an Act of Submission
Changing one’s natural body to please the desires of another.
- The male must the spend time and effort of shaving, purely to please her. She is free from worrying about pleasing him. The effort of shaving is a daily reminder of his worship of her.
- From a visual standpoint, he now looks submissive while she looks like the dominant one – it is reversal of the typical male/female dynamic.
- It keeps his pubic hairs from pinching in the chastity cage, making it more comfortable for long term wear.
- She becomes accustomed to seeing his shaved little penis. This might be an intimate secret they share, but it does not arouse her feminine self. However, it makes the sight of a masculine, hairy man with a large, uncaged cock more exciting.
Lots of questions over type of device. Frankly, it’s a a matter of opinion For us, the steel cages fit well, allow for good airflow, and hygiene. We keep a bottle of water at the toilet that he pours through the device after urinating. It’s perfect. Comfort – Hygiene – Long term. Way to go. What’s your go to longterm device?
BENEFITS
Most agree that a man who practices chastity is expressing profound respect for his girl. It is not easy for him to start or endure.
1. It prevents him from masturbating. Male masturbation is a filthy habit. It’s addictive, selfish, and disrespectful to women. Chronic masturbation has the effect of substantially diminishing a man’s natural sexual desire for his wife of girlfriend. It unfortunately teaches him that his orgasm is primary, and hers is secondary.
2. Because he can’t even get an erection without her permission, it instantly changes the dynamics of the relationship.
3. It keeps his sexual focus and energy on his wife or girlfriend.
4. He will invest in bling, sex toys, whatever he can think of that will turn you on.
5. It helps prepares him for the eventuality of anal penetration, and getting the strap-on. Because his penis isn’t being sexually stimulated, it has the effect of gradually turning other parts of his body into erogenous zones, particularly his anus and his prostate. With patience and persistence, he can be trained to orgasm from stimulation in that region via your finger, or the strap-on.
6. If he’s never been an ass-eater, after having his penis locked up for a few weeks, he will be.
7. It serves as a constant reminder to him of her authority. His submission is deepened and if she plays it right he will worship the ground she walks on.
8. Because it makes his orgasms entirely dependent on her generosity, it forces him him to honor her, respect her, and motivates him to please.
9. It gives him the time and opportunity to substantially improve and perfect his oral skills. And her a chance to learn what she really likes.
10. It reinforces the idea that pussy is a precious gift that must be earned, and is to be savored and appreciated on those rare occasions when he does get it.
11. It teaches him that sexual activity with his wife or girlfriend doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with his penis.
12. It will significantly improve his attitude, and make him more generous, caring, kind, respectful, and loving. It will help soften the sharper edges of his me-first masculinity. It will make him more of a listener than a talker.
13. if his orgasms are consistently controlled and severely restricted, he will eventually get to the point where he will do just about anything to cum. You’ll be amazed by what he’ll do for you.
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1. You are not punishing your man – you are protecting him from his perfectly normal lack of self-control.
2. You are not denying him sexual pleasure. In fact, when you do release him from his male chastity belt, sex will feel better for him and his orgasms will become much more intense.
3. You are not denying yourself the sex life you deserve. While he’s locked up he’ll use his mouth and fingers to provide you with sexual satisfaction on a regular basis. And, there are ways that you have satisfying penetrative sex while he is still under lock and key.
4. Men will try to claim they need to have regular orgasms to stay healthy. This simply isn’t true. They do need to have ejaculations every so often; but you can make this happen in a matter of minutes without him getting an erection or having an orgasm.
5. Hundreds of thousands of married couples are in the male chastity lifestyle. It’s not kinky. In fact, the odds are that several of your friends already have their husband’s crown jewels locked away.
6. When done correctly, your man will feel more loved by you than he did before male chastity became a part of your life. In fact, most men eventually thank their wives for insisting on the lifestyle.
7. While at first you’ll only keep him locked up for a few days at a time, eventually he should be restricted to eight to 12 orgasms a year. This is more than enough.
8. Over time he’ll start to feel like more of a man, because he’ll know that all of his sexual energy is going towards pleasing you. He’ll like the fact that he no longer feels like a little boy who can’t help but play with his little pee-pee when you are not looking. Instead, he will be saving himself for you!
Good reading…
Day 10 and no intentions if letting him cum yet.
I love seeing the chastised male giving her a pedicure. I wish there was a class to send mine to. He tries, but struggles in this area. Practice makes perfect
Couples frequently start experimenting with male chastity at home for fun and to add a little spice to their sex lives. More and more often the wife or girlfriend quickly recognizes the benefits of locking their man and begin to insisting on longer durations of chastity. This is often more then he bargained for, but once she has gotten a taste of the power, the control, and the servitude brought on by male chastity, it is unlikely that his objections will overcome her desires or that she will ever accept a non chaste relationship with him. This is how it began for us and many others. What started out as bedroom play will evolve into a lifestyle. One that she leads, both in and out of the bedroom.
For the men that find themselves in this situation my advice is to just accept and go with it. Once she has experienced the changes that chastity brings out in a man, there is no turning back for her. It is okay to have apprehensions, but continued reluctance to comply with her wishes will eventually result in an ultimatum “Wear it or the relationship is over”. It can be a very difficult time in the relationship, or it can be a the best thing that ever happened. The only choice left is to abandon the relationship or learn to be obedient.
This is the point of no return.
Your life will be easier when you accept chastity and your relationship will flourish. You will take pride in yourself as you overcome each hurdle. Your first 24 hours being locked is a milestone that should be celebrated. Then she should shoot for three full days. Then a week. Some of the strongest relationships I know of have him locked up a month at a time. Acceptance is the key to success, and I encourage you to work with her and allow her to guide you down this path.
My guy has managed to survive week long periods of being locked for over a year now. At first he was uncomfortable with it both physically and emotionally, but in time he has come to accept chastity and physically he has adapted to continuously wearing the device. Shaving his pubic hair was one of the best things we did to make the device physically comfortable. We have recently moved to a monthly release schedule and our relationship couldn’t be stronger.
Domestically, he is a dream. I can’t remember the last time I washed a dish, vacuumed, or did a load of laundry. The housework is now his job. His weak area is cooking, but thanks to youtube, he has learned some basic techniques and has actually registered for some culinary classes that I am sure will further advance his value in the relationship and his own feeling of self worth. All this has allowed me time to workout after work (I’ve lost the 10lbs that I’ve been wanting to shed for 10 years!) or catch up with friends during the week. I am now training to run a half marathon, something I could never have done with my old schedule. Happy hours were never an option because there was so much to be done at home, but now I go out once, sometimes twice a week, and don’t have to worry about coming home to a messy house. As I have mentioned in previous post, my only regret is that I didn’t discover the benefits of a locked cock much sooner This is why I feel an obligation to share an encourage this lifestyle with others.
Of course there are other benefits and side effects that I won’t mention in this post, but rest assured once he is locked, the woman will be free to indulge in any activity that she so desires.
And in case you’re wondering, I love him more then I ever have.
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