I’m a domineering woman (40) and a strict believer in FLR. My new life partner (35) has accepted his role but there’s one thing he refuses: He don’t want to kiss my feet for respect! But it’s absolutely necessary – I think – and so I would threaten him to use the whip if he don’t obey in this sense. It would be justified, I’m sure. do you also think so?

No way this should be an issue at this stage. I need more details