Hi there, I’m new to a FLR and still figuring things out. I’m having issues not loosing my temper when my pet starts to get an attitude. I feel that its not acceptable, especially since this is what he has wanted for ages. It makes it so much harder than it should be. What can I do to help him refocus with out turning into a screaming bitch? Any pointers would be sooo appreciated.

I think we all run into this issue from time to time. There is nothing wrong with expressing anger, but we don’t want it to occur to much. The chastity program I have my hubby on does a pretty good job of keeping him obedient. Whining is something I don’t tolerate and he has learned that it adds time to his chastity sentence. 

Do you think that a weekly cleaning calendar for a husband is a good idea? I was thinking of one with detailed morning, afternoon and evening chores list, would have to be multiple pages. Maybe also with boxes to tick when tasks ae complete and also a space for an explanation if failed to do. Perhaps could be given a weekly scoring as well.

Yes I think this is a good idea. We use a free IOS and Android app called “Chorma”. I can assign chores, make the recurring or not, and include a due date. He gets an alert each time a new chore is assigned. This is handy when I am at work and think of something I need him to do or pick up on the way home. I simply enter it into the app and voila, it gets done. 

Earlier this year I decided

To make him start wearing female hygiene product. They say Secret is strong enough for a man, but made for a woman. Well we tested that theory out and it’s true. And the scent is much more appealing then his old masculine deodorant. 

On date nights and other outings we share Poison perfume. This has long been one of my favorites and I see no reason why he shouldn’t embrace the same sexy feminine scent that I do. 

Yes we do get the occasional glance from other women when they recognize the fragrance on him, but isn’t that the whole point?