At first, many men struggle with the reality that she has chosen not to use your cock anymore. As we evolve and more and more wives make the decision to pursue a “Modern Marriage”, It’s important to remember that just because your cock is no longer allowed in her pussy, that does not diminish her love for you. She will always want and love you. In fact in most cases her love for you will go stronger. In fact, if she didn’t deny you and take better equipped lovers, she would always resent you and the marriage would be strained. By making the decision to lock and deny you,she is doing you both a huge favor and she should be applauded for making this effort. Being locked up and denied pussy does not mean she doesn’t want you anymore. While your cock is relegated to a cage, you can still please her in many other ways. In a “Modern Marriage” the husband can still do the housework and all her errands. You are also perfectly capable of proving her with unlimited oral sex and without the expectation of cumming, all your focus will be on pleasing her. This means that your oral skills and willingness to perform will improve to levels you never dreamed possible. While you were once reluctant to worship her ass, you’ll now jump at the opportunity. Your desire to please her will grow each and every day that you’re locked up. Her decision to lock you and assume the alpha role in your marriage is natural and studies show this practice is becoming more and more common in marriages where the white male is under endowed. Always remember that it is not her fault that you have a small white cock, and she should not be deprived of real sex because of it. Support her decision and make the best of the situation. Consider yourself lucky that you have the love of a strong woman, despite your shortcomings. 

Stocking stuffer ideas

The Holidays are here. I thought I would share some stocking stuffer ideas for all the lady readers. Ladies, if you see something you like, feel free to direct your man here. Links to each item are included in description. 

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How about buying her a new lock and a key suitable for wearing around her neck or on her anklet? This Heart shaped lock and decorative key set are fully functional and the key will compliment her sense of fashion and turn you on every time you see her wearing it around her neck.

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http://www.uberkinky.co.uk/heart-shaped-nickle-polished-padlock-92823.html

This Sterling silver anklet with beautiful decorative lock and key charms will serve as a constant reminder that his cock is locked by you. It’s a great conversation starter too when in public situations. 

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https://www.blingjewelry.com/bling-jewelry-sterling-silver-cz-lock-key-charms-ankle-bracelet.html?CAWELAID=520008560000002040&CAGPSPN=pla&catargetid=520008560000000241&cadevice=c&gclid=COLZ57u5h8ICFUIV7AodsRoAoQ

If you prefer gold over silver, check here:

http://www.rakuten.com/prod/bling-jewelry-lock-and-key-charm-anklet-bracelet-anchor-chain-gold/250986265.html?listingId=290271494&sclid=pla_google_BlingJewelry&adid=29963&gclid=CIG6qMS5h8ICFW8V7AodIUUAlA

Secure plastic and numbered locks for his chastity device. For the times when he has to be unattended while locked, you can leave him locked with one of these, which he can cut off in case of emergency. You’ll track the number so you’ll know if it’s been removed. If it has, he better have a good reason

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http://www.amazon.com/Chastity-10Pack-Time-Plastic-Locks/dp/B009KSZH6U

Many women are turning to temporary tattoos to wear on their nights out with the girls, or their locked cock. A strategically placed Queen of Spades tattoo will communicate your status as a cuckoldress, to those in the know. 

http://www.queenofspadestattoos.com/

How about a nice book that can be read by both him and her? This is one of my favorites, but there are many out there based on what stage of relationship you are in. 

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http://www.amazon.com/How-To-Set-Up-FLR-ebook/dp/B00BB3EP4C/ref=pd_rhf_se_s_cp_2_ZVWN?ie=UTF8&refRID=1R8TX7752RA4DTA3TX4N

In the next few days I will be writing a post to assist with New Years Resolution for 2015! Let me know what yours are!

Had to share a recent unplanned experience that I believed helped to further reinforce to hubby how useless his penis has become in our relationship.

Prior to Saturday evening I kept him chaste for 10 days. As has become routine, and to prevent accidents, I had him put on his chastity device, lock it up, and present me the key before he put his tongue to work on my pussy and ass. My original intent was just for him to provide me with an hour or so of oral servitude. I wanted him to remain in chastity for a few more days at least. It’s become a regular thing for me to lock him while he’s doing this. The device keeps his penis from getting erect and I’ve found just that fact alone makes him much more attentive to his husbandly duties.

Anyways, the whole time i’m fucking his face with my ass and pussy, and verbally reminding him what a bitch I’ve made him, he’s begging for me to unlock his penis. This is not an unusual request during these sessions and one that is almost always denied. He’s close to the point of tears and literally begging me to let his penis in me, even if it’s just for a minute. I laugh him off, pointing out how his penis is simply incapable of giving me any type of sexual gratification. I don’t pull any punches when expressing how useless his penis is to me. He insists he can prove me wrong if I just give him the chance:

“Please let me show you that my cock can satisfy you. Please just give me one chance”

I look at his tiny member straining inside the plastic that surrounds it. It’s swelling as much as the plastic will allow and tiny drops of pre-cum are forming at the tip. It’s truly a pathetic sight. I thought about how this grown man has spent the last week and a half being my oral and domestic slave. Doing all the household chores, wearing my panties, and begging me for a chance to prove himself. He still has this notion that his penis can somehow give a women pleasure. The same penis that I have determined is insignificant in the bedroom. This is when the idea of making a deal with him struck me from out of the blue. 

“Maybe I’ll give you an opportunity to prove yourself, but there will be conditions. Are you willing to make a deal, dear?”

His answer was predictable:

“yes ma’am, please please please – anything”

“Ok then here’s what I’m willing to do: I’ll unlock you and give you one chance to prove to me that you have a cock worthy of entering a pussy, any pussy. All you have to do is last 45 seconds without cumming. Dear, any real man with control over his cock can last much longer then that. If you can just last 45 seconds inside of me, without cumming, I will rethink my rationing of your orgasms. In fact, I’ll let you have freedom for the next week. All you have to do is make it 45 seconds. Easy peasy. But if you fail, and shoot your little was before the 45 seconds is up, you’re going not going to cum until 2015 (almost 30 days). Do we have a deal?”, I asked?

“Yes Ma’am” came his instant reply"

That was all I needed to here. I produced the key and turned it in the lock. The “click” sounds as the lock snapped seemed to echo in this quiet moment. As I slowly pulled the cage from his penis, he immediately became erect. 

“Remember our deal – You have to last 45 seconds or else” Is aid as I set the stopwatch on my phone. 

I knew even before I lowered myself onto his 5.5" peepee that he had no chance of winning this bet. No chance of feeling like a real man, capable of satisfying a woman. No chance of regaining any of the pride or machismo that I spent the last 12 months taking from him.

He entered into me slowly. I gave him a couple seconds to remind him what it felt like to be in a pussy. Then I began to move up and down. Slowly at first and then rapidly increasing the pace.

I whispered softly in his ear “come on baby show me you can handle my pussy”

The look on his face said it all. I could see him fighting the urge. He quickly grunted and and within seconds he exploded in what would be his final orgasm of 2014. 

I lifted myself off him and stopped the stopwatch. With a smirk, I put it in his face and asked him to read the results. 

“12 seconds”, he muttered in a dejected tone. . 

“12 seconds?”, I laughed back at him. “how do you expect to please a woman in 12 seconds? That’s pathetic!”.

Although through this little exercise he got to cum, a very powerful lesson was learned. Even when the stakes are high, he is unable to perform like a man. I was able to demonstrate exactly why his penis deserves to be locked up and denied. And why I have to seek out men who can give me what he can’t. 

He sealed his own fate by agreeing to this wager and not being able to perform when it mattered most. I intend to enforce the terms of our wager and ensure he doesn’t cum again in 2014.

Who knows in 2015 we may up the ante. 

This is what the new Modern Marriage looks like. We still love our white husbands. They take us to wonderful dinners and buy us nice things. They do almost all the housework. They’ve learned how to fold and hang our clothes just how we like. They shine our shoes. They kiss our feet, pussy, and asses on command. They wear our panties because that’s what we want. They accept us caging their penis, so we know they’re being loyal. They go weeks, sometimes months, without an orgasm. We get to proudly display the key to their cock during public outings, while they crave the freedom they used to have. They’ve learned to make up for their inadequacies with oral skills,and in other ways. They’ll eat our ass and pussy daily, while they remain chaste. They accept our desire for real cocks, and as difficult as it may be, they watch us experience wonderful orgasms at the hands of capable lovers. And the real good husbands- The best ones – will go down and clean our pussies with their tongues after we’ve accepted another mans seed into it. They do all this and more because they love us. We make them do it, because we can. Because of all this, we love our husband, and would never leave them. They have accepted their role in the relationship and respect our authority. The new Modern Marriage will decrease divorce rates and increase the number of happy marriages under female control. 

Please please please – Ladies, you can have all this and more. DO NOT DEPRIVE YOURSELF ANY LONGER. Put your foot down and make it happen. This is no longer a fantasy. You can have this life. You are superior. It is a revolution that has already begun.

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