I do have one regret about locking his cock up: THAT I DIDN”T DO IT YEARS AGO!
Better late then never
Tag: malechastity
First let me credit http://newlychasted.tumblr.com/ for these two images.
This is the Bon4M chastity device. I can tell you it is top of line and designed for long time wear. Everyone knows that male orgasm control/denial is the cornerstone to a successful Female Led Relationship and when you are ready to get serious about pursuing the lifestyle, this is one of two devices I can heartily recommend based on our firsthand experience. Although pricey, it is well worth the investment. Made of 100% stainless steel, your boy will appreciate the comfort. Note how a rubber band or hair tie is used to secure the lock in case he is self conscious about the lock clanging on the steel.
The Bon series of chastity devices can be purchased here. http://newlychasted.tumblr.com/
The all important key
If you are his keyholder, you want to keep him reminded of that fact as often as possible. A best practice it to openly wear the key around your neck or ankle whenever he is locked. Even out in public. Other keyholders may recognize his predicament and give you a knowing wink or grin, while those less in the know will simply see it as a fashion statement. Either way, your husband will be humbled every time he see it. See examples below, and please send me your pics!.
Shaving and emasculating a locked man
I believe it is imperative that a man in chastity should have his pubic hair trimmed. There are several reasons for this.
1 – His chastity device will be much more comfortable and easy to put on and take off, if pubic hair is trimmed. His whines of “it uncomfortable, it’s pulling my hair” will no longer be valid.
2 – Shaving a man’s pubic region will further emasculate him and keep his male ego in check.
I believe only women should have more pubic hair then their male. It stands as a sign of womanhood. Naked male genitals show a sign of surrender to the Female.
3 – Appearance. A properly groomed man is far more pleasing to the female eye.
See some examples below. Once you have your man locked up and all trimmed up it is strongly encouraged that you snap a picture. Hopefully you will share it with us! You can also use it to blackmail him if he starts getting on your nerves.
“Honey, I would really hate to have to show (insert a female friends name here) that pretty picture of your locked cock”
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OUR JOURNEY INTO MALE CHASTITY (PART 1)
After months of talking about and threatening to put him in a chastity device, I finally pulled the trigger and ordered our first chastity device. This is something I had wanted for years and only recently had it become a topic of conversation. I became more and more insistent until I finally got to the point where I wouldn’t take no for an answer. I had gradually take more and more control in the bedroom, and eventually wore him down. It was a Friday night and I knew he was expecting sex. I knew this was the night and after a few cocktails I finally pulled out the device that had arrived days earlier. He had accepted that I wasn’t going to drop it and reluctantly agreed to a “trial period, which was fine with me. I wasn’t sure if this was something that we would pursue long term, but I knew it was something we had to try.
I got a bag of frozen peas out of the refrigerator and held it over his underwear, to his crotch until his penis became flaccid and shrank to a dimension that would fit into our new device. Having watched several video earlier in the week, I went to work. Using a little moisturizing lotion, I had his little cock and balls fully secured by the device. Excitement rushed through my body as I reached for the heart shaped padlock that came with the device. I pushed the lock through the appropriate hole. Before locking it, I looked him in the eyes and immediately recognized the fear in his face. I grinned at him and told him not to worry. This was how things were meant to be. I pressed down on the lock and heard a satisfying *CLICK*.
I had finally done it! I instantly felt a new level of confidence and power. While my ego and arrogance level shot to once unknown levels, his dropped to an all time low. I knew instantly that a power exchange has just occurred and it felt so right. I patted the device and then gave it a soft tug. It was secure. I was convinced that his imprisoned cock would not get free unless I unlocked it. He was helpless and I was now in total control. This is the way it should have always been! Why had I waited so long.
I set about reassuring him that “we” had made the right deicision. As the look of despair on his face grew, I began telling him how happy I was with this arrangement. He reminded me that this was only a “test” and I told him it was. He asked me what time we could remove the device and seemed shocked when I suggested that he wear it a week, so that we could get a good feel for it. He seemed astonished,
“honey, I thought we would just try it for an hour or so to see how we liked it”
I replied … “Don’t be silly honey. We can’t get any idea of how we like this arrangement if we don’t give it a chance, right?”
He hesitated then nodded his head. Perfect. I continued,
“What is the point in me locking up your little cock if we were only going to let it out as soon as you wanted? We’re going to shoot for a week like the website says and we’ll reassess then”
My tone was kind, but firm. I wasn’t allowing for any wiggle room and for the time being he accepted his fate. I told him to pour me a wine and hurry back to the couch. He quickly complied. When he came back, I was naked. He set my wine down beside me. I motioned for him to take a seat on the floor. I felt so liberated. I was in total control. And he was helpless. I felt unhibited. Brazenly, I raised my right foot to his face and simply pointed. He slowly leaned in towards my extended foot, and began kissing the bottoms of them, Soft little kisses. Normally acceptable, but not tonight. After all, thing were changing. They have changed. His meager little pecks were not enough. Not tonight and not anymore. His lazy kissing irritated me. It always had, but tonight it wasn’t going to fly. I hooked my other foot around his head and pulled his head forward, while roughly pushing my right foot into his face.
“Lick my foot like you want to cum” I barked.
Despite my size 7 sole pressed into his mouth, I saw the look of surprise on his face.
“Stick out your tongue!”
I slowly dragged my foot down his face. From heel to toes. He began licking and kissing in earnest. This is the way it should be, I thought to myself. His tongue circled each toe before moving on to the next. I sipped my wine while he paid way over due homage to both my feet.
Finally I pulled him towards my pussy. The activities of the night has me already wet as I guided him towards my cunt. I saw that his cock had swelled enough to fill the cage. That would be as hard as he would get. His oral game was on point tonight. Just like all the articles I read stated, he was performing better then ever. You see, when a man know he is not going to cum – when he knows sex is not for her pleasure, it is for yours, it takes the pressure off of him. He doesn’t have to worry about his cock or his orgasm. His efforts are focused only on pleasuring you.
My first orgasm came quickly. I pulled him in tighter and grinded my pussy hard into his face as I had my most intense orgasm in recent history. As I slowed, I allowed him to pull his head back. His face was glistening in my juices. He was red faced and out of breath. He looked like beaten man. I looked down at his locked cock, dangling limp and helpless between his legs.I pushed him onto his back and lowered my ass onto his face. He may have thought one orgasm would be enough, but my desires were not yet satisfied. He resumed his efforts and within minutes I was nearing my second orgasm. Suddenly I was fucking his face with reckless abandon and tugging on the plastic that caged his little cock. M womanhood was smothering him. As he struggled to breathe, I realized his world, his breath, his life, everything he was, was buried underneath my pussy and ass. He was helpess to do anything but feel the power of my sex.
“Take it honey – you little bitch!”
I exploded, then collapsed. He was still on his back panting. After a few minutes we sat up. I told him how good that was for me. His cock strained. I sat up and patted him on his wet cheek.
“That was everything I expected honey and everything I wanted. Hopefully we’ll be able to take your chastity device off next weeked”
“Hopefully”, he exclaimed.
“Not now honey – go do the dishes – NOW!” I snapped
He obeyed. This was only day one!
To be continued.
Male chastity
This is a great article on Male Chastity. I’d consider it required reading for aspiring keyholders.
http://www.chastitylifestyle.com/chastity/chastity_stories/enforced_male_chastity.html
Once you finally make the decision to trim his pubic hair and lock him up, it’s hard to imagine ever going back. The benefits are immediate.
Male chastity is at the core of every Female Led Relationship
Stocking stuffer ideas
The Holidays are here. I thought I would share some stocking stuffer ideas for all the lady readers. Ladies, if you see something you like, feel free to direct your man here. Links to each item are included in description.
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How about buying her a new lock and a key suitable for wearing around her neck or on her anklet? This Heart shaped lock and decorative key set are fully functional and the key will compliment her sense of fashion and turn you on every time you see her wearing it around her neck.
http://www.uberkinky.co.uk/heart-shaped-nickle-polished-padlock-92823.html
This Sterling silver anklet with beautiful decorative lock and key charms will serve as a constant reminder that his cock is locked by you. It’s a great conversation starter too when in public situations.
If you prefer gold over silver, check here:
Secure plastic and numbered locks for his chastity device. For the times when he has to be unattended while locked, you can leave him locked with one of these, which he can cut off in case of emergency. You’ll track the number so you’ll know if it’s been removed. If it has, he better have a good reason
http://www.amazon.com/Chastity-10Pack-Time-Plastic-Locks/dp/B009KSZH6U
Many women are turning to temporary tattoos to wear on their nights out with the girls, or their locked cock. A strategically placed Queen of Spades tattoo will communicate your status as a cuckoldress, to those in the know.
http://www.queenofspadestattoos.com/
How about a nice book that can be read by both him and her? This is one of my favorites, but there are many out there based on what stage of relationship you are in.
In the next few days I will be writing a post to assist with New Years Resolution for 2015! Let me know what yours are!
Had to share a recent unplanned experience that I believed helped to further reinforce to hubby how useless his penis has become in our relationship.
Prior to Saturday evening I kept him chaste for 10 days. As has become routine, and to prevent accidents, I had him put on his chastity device, lock it up, and present me the key before he put his tongue to work on my pussy and ass. My original intent was just for him to provide me with an hour or so of oral servitude. I wanted him to remain in chastity for a few more days at least. It’s become a regular thing for me to lock him while he’s doing this. The device keeps his penis from getting erect and I’ve found just that fact alone makes him much more attentive to his husbandly duties.
Anyways, the whole time i’m fucking his face with my ass and pussy, and verbally reminding him what a bitch I’ve made him, he’s begging for me to unlock his penis. This is not an unusual request during these sessions and one that is almost always denied. He’s close to the point of tears and literally begging me to let his penis in me, even if it’s just for a minute. I laugh him off, pointing out how his penis is simply incapable of giving me any type of sexual gratification. I don’t pull any punches when expressing how useless his penis is to me. He insists he can prove me wrong if I just give him the chance:
“Please let me show you that my cock can satisfy you. Please just give me one chance”
I look at his tiny member straining inside the plastic that surrounds it. It’s swelling as much as the plastic will allow and tiny drops of pre-cum are forming at the tip. It’s truly a pathetic sight. I thought about how this grown man has spent the last week and a half being my oral and domestic slave. Doing all the household chores, wearing my panties, and begging me for a chance to prove himself. He still has this notion that his penis can somehow give a women pleasure. The same penis that I have determined is insignificant in the bedroom. This is when the idea of making a deal with him struck me from out of the blue.
“Maybe I’ll give you an opportunity to prove yourself, but there will be conditions. Are you willing to make a deal, dear?”
His answer was predictable:
“yes ma’am, please please please – anything”
“Ok then here’s what I’m willing to do: I’ll unlock you and give you one chance to prove to me that you have a cock worthy of entering a pussy, any pussy. All you have to do is last 45 seconds without cumming. Dear, any real man with control over his cock can last much longer then that. If you can just last 45 seconds inside of me, without cumming, I will rethink my rationing of your orgasms. In fact, I’ll let you have freedom for the next week. All you have to do is make it 45 seconds. Easy peasy. But if you fail, and shoot your little was before the 45 seconds is up, you’re going not going to cum until 2015 (almost 30 days). Do we have a deal?”, I asked?
“Yes Ma’am” came his instant reply"
That was all I needed to here. I produced the key and turned it in the lock. The “click” sounds as the lock snapped seemed to echo in this quiet moment. As I slowly pulled the cage from his penis, he immediately became erect.
“Remember our deal – You have to last 45 seconds or else” Is aid as I set the stopwatch on my phone.
I knew even before I lowered myself onto his 5.5" peepee that he had no chance of winning this bet. No chance of feeling like a real man, capable of satisfying a woman. No chance of regaining any of the pride or machismo that I spent the last 12 months taking from him.
He entered into me slowly. I gave him a couple seconds to remind him what it felt like to be in a pussy. Then I began to move up and down. Slowly at first and then rapidly increasing the pace.
I whispered softly in his ear “come on baby show me you can handle my pussy”
The look on his face said it all. I could see him fighting the urge. He quickly grunted and and within seconds he exploded in what would be his final orgasm of 2014.
I lifted myself off him and stopped the stopwatch. With a smirk, I put it in his face and asked him to read the results.
“12 seconds”, he muttered in a dejected tone. .
“12 seconds?”, I laughed back at him. “how do you expect to please a woman in 12 seconds? That’s pathetic!”.
Although through this little exercise he got to cum, a very powerful lesson was learned. Even when the stakes are high, he is unable to perform like a man. I was able to demonstrate exactly why his penis deserves to be locked up and denied. And why I have to seek out men who can give me what he can’t.
He sealed his own fate by agreeing to this wager and not being able to perform when it mattered most. I intend to enforce the terms of our wager and ensure he doesn’t cum again in 2014.
Who knows in 2015 we may up the ante.
Just some random photos of penises that remind me of my husbands. Notice that most of them are made to trim their pubic hair. This allows easier installation of the chastity device as well adds to the humiliation of the male.