FIVE REASONS WOMEN BETTER BOSSES THAN MEN

Generalizations can be dangerous in the world of work, and stereotyping by gender particularly so.  That said, research carried out over the past few years has regularly reached the conclusion that women make better bosses than their male counterparts.  So what makes women better in leading roles?  Here are just five reasons women tend to make better bosses

Women are Better Listeners

An ability to listen is vital in an employer/employee relationship, and women are naturally better at letting people have their say and listening to what is said.  All members of staff want to feel that their views and concerns are heard and acted upon, and women tend to be more discussion-focused when men prefer to take swift, decisive action.  There are advantages to both approaches, but creating a culture where employees feel their voices are heard and valued leads to a happier workplace all round.

Women Like to Encourage Development

Women often have a harder time getting into senior positions, but that often means they’re less inclined to pull the drawbridge up behind them.  In a 2015 Gallup report entitled The State of the American Manager, researchers found that those working for a female boss were around one and a quarter times more likely to feel they were encouraged to develop than those working for a male supervisor.  Female managers, it seems, were more likely to give their employees space for trial and error and better at finding ways to stretch them.

Women are Better Engaged

On the whole, women are better engaged than their male counterparts and that filters down to their employees.  A more engaged boss means a more engaged workforce, and the same Gallup study found that those working for a female supervisor were almost 6% more engaged than those working for a male leader.  Women working for a female boss were found to be the most engaged and productive at 35%, while men working for a male boss came in at just 25%.

Women are Better at Offering Praise

In any business, there needs to be a degree of both carrot and stick if you want to get the best out of your employees.  Women are almost always better at giving credit where it’s due.  Giving praise can be interpreted by some as a sign of ‘weakness’, and while men prefer to portray themselves as in control and authoritative, women are generally much more relaxed about offering praise.  Research has shown that employees who feel valued and are recognised for their contribution are more productive, so words of encouragement now and then really can have a positive impact on the whole team.

Women are Better at Building Consensus

Debate and discussion are good, no matter what business you are in.  So too is consensus building.  Letting everyone have their say and then finding a course of action all can agree on is vital for cultivating a strong team ethic and loyalty between your employees, and women tend to prefer building bridges and finding consensus than men.  By listening and letting everyone have their say, women allow everyone to feel equally valued and people are more likely to make concessions for the wider good of the team.

Sweeping generalizations are often unhelpful, but in this case it seems that gender really can have a huge impact on the employer/employee relationship.  While women in senior company roles are still the minority, it’s clear that those in managerial positions are as successful (if not more so) than their male equivalents.  As companies strive to get more women into the top jobs, employing more female bosses really could make a big difference to the success of your business.

Empowered Cuckoldress

From Fetlife User @kbangz

One way in which we view our cuckolding relationship eloquently paraphrased:

“The only thing sexier than a nice, big cock is seeing my husband’s twitch helplessly for me.”


For many couples, the appeal of cuckolding isn’t to replace something missing, it’s to create a new dynamic. At the core of this experience is the empowerment of the the wife through becoming a hotwife – a sexually liberated married (or otherwise committed) woman. This empowerment is often so attractive to her because she has traditionally not been the more dominant partner in the relationship and it’s the empowerment which drives her interest in cuckolding her husband more than the opportunity to invite another male inside her.

Take one couple for example: both attractive people in their 30s, she was a tall and slender sandy blonde with breasts perfectly proportional to her frame. He was tall with athletic build and big cock. However, she explained that he couldn’t fuck her longer than ten minutes. What she say was that before she began fucking other men in front of him, he could fuck her as long as he wanted to.

So what happened? Empowerment expressed as a power exchange.

Sharing her was at first a fantasy neither one of them expected to become a reality, but once he admitted to her how much he enjoyed it when men tried to seduce her, the pillow talk and fantasies gave her a clear path to being empowered. She recognized the intensity of this fantasy for him and how it could be used to bargain his behavior and used that to negate his tendency to only take the pillow talk to a certain point of arousal before he would assert control so he could fuck her. Tying him to the sort of reclining lounge chair one finds by the pool became the only way she could explore these ideas with him without him just taking her when he wanted to. Being free to explore ideas and tease her husband, she quickly realized how certain topics, certain ideas rapidly pushed him toward the cliff of orgasm. She would often mount him, cowgirl, while he was bound to the lounge chair, and use his cock like a dildo, but even when she controlled the pace, only a few of the right words could send him over the edge. She then began hand training him – using her hand to tease him instead of riding him, hoping he’d last longer that way – somehow that got him off even faster. Now I understand why, but at the time that mad no sense to me. She became much more fascinated by her ability to have such sexual control over her otherwise dominant husband and his impressive cock than by the option to allow someone else to seduce her (or think he had).

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It didn’t take her long to realize that she always had to give in, in the end, to get fucked, but it was a very short coupling – too short. To work around that they tried lovemaking without the teasing and pillow talk, but found that lacking. The only way to enjoy her teased male and enjoy being fucked by one was to invite another male into their marriage. Doing that meant she could fully explore stripping her husband of his sexual prowess.

Learning to uncouple the idea of being inside his wife simply because he’s erect and desires her is much more challenging for both when he’s above average, but doing so becomes twice as rewarding.

Is the phrase “rob him of his sexual prowess” still reverberating inside your mind? I know it sounds cruel to some, but done within the context of a loving, hotwife/cuckold relationship, it’s simply another way to express a submissive role on behalf of the husband and way for his hotwife to feel empowered. This energy even transfers to the boyfriend if/when he becomes aware that his play with the wife has enabled her to further the necessity of his role in their marriage.

I was told I was the third guy to play with her (them). We always played together and he was always bound to the chair, on a towel, while watching us. I usually started with her in missionary, but she always wanted to ride me so she could look at her cuckold and taunt him. He would be leaking mostly constantly and she would sometimes slip off my cock and go over to him and tease him physically in her hands or even mount him briefly before returning to me. I believe it was those moments forever captured in his mind that robbed him of his stamina. Even when alone with her and free of any teasing by her, those memories and images couldn’t be escaped. To paraphrase his wife, “The only thing sexier than a nice, big cock is seeing my husband’s twitch helplessly for me.”

They told me he only got her hand or his own while she was ‘seeing someone’, but I don’t really know if that was true or something they told me to make me feel special. She did demonstrate how easily she could make him spurt – rather like the video below, though he was already quite erect when she started.

This is obviously not an actual couple (porn couple), but the situation is valid and mirrors what I experienced with my second couple. I was little more than a living dildo for her and we really never had much of a gf/bf kind of thing. Even though it was hot to fuck her like that while it lasted, I’d have to say I’ve gained more from it in hindsight than I did in the moment.

I’ve talked to a number of couples who have discovered this dynamic and actively pursued it, including one just recently. Though it’s intense to consider the idea that such a shift in his sexual stamina is permanent, it’s most likely not, but while his wife feels empowered to rob him of it, that’s very likely to happen!

Pegging in a FLR the Ultimate Form of Submission?

by IncardineArt

Pegging has recently become an integral part of my D/s relationship. As a male sub in 24/7 chastity, it was offered to me by my wife as an alternative source of pleasure since I was only permitted orgasms every 4-6 months. Initially I resisted the idea of being penetrated anally by her for fear that it would be uncomfortable and politely declined her offer. I quickly realized that she wasn’t giving me an option. She said to me in a very stern voice ‘getting the strap-on is not an option…it’s a requirement of this relationship.“ She made it clear to me that she planned to make it a very normal part of our sexual dynamic and assured me that I would quickly get used to it and that I would ultimately learn to love it.

After some further discussion, I learned that she viewed the combination of chastity with pegging as the ultimate form of submission. She saw it as a way to further enhance our overall relationship by further exploring and exploiting my level of submissiveness. She set an initial schedule of twice weekly using a 6” dildo. After just a few weeks, there were some very notable changes that had taken place.

Full time chastity had in a way forced me into a state of submission, but Pegging allowed my submissive nature to blossom fully. What was left of my selfish, argumentative ways has all but dissipated. I’ve become much more cooperative and attentive to my wife’s needs, and am even less concerned with my own orgasms than before. My erogenous zone has shifted from the head of my penis to my anal opening and prostate gland. Because of this shift, I regularly think about and ‘crave’ her cock in my ass more regularly. Her goal is to train me to orgasm from anal penetration alone, which she says is possible once I’m able to fully relax and focus on the experience. Because an anal orgasm doesn’t involve an ejaculation, it won’t affect any restrictions placed upon me through chastity.

Have other subs or Dommes noticed similar changes? One change I have noticed is that I’m unable to remain erect while being pegged. Don’t get me wrong, it’s still very enjoyable. I just lose my erection while being penetrated. Not sure if this is something others have experienced?

@IncardineArt. Don’t be disappointed at losing your erection. It’s very common. It happens to my sub 100% of the time (and every other sub I’ve ever played with). I’m not sure why this is. There could be some physiological basis for it, or it could just be a mental shift away from the erogenous zones in your cock to those in your ass? Maintaining an erection shouldn’t be a concern of yours while being pegged. What matters most is that you learn to fully enjoy it and keep your wife/Mistress happy 😉  

Pegging is something that comes with deep potential for personal growth and really hot sex. It allows a sub to experience amazing pleasure and intense arousal without penile stimulation. This allows him to ride the waves of sexual energy without any risk for ejaculation. You are essentially changing his pleasure area. He will learn to transfer all the pleasure he desires from penile stimulation to anal stimulation. For many men in chastity, this becomes a primary source of stimulation that can provide them with great satisfaction without the risk of ejaculation. A sub can eventually be trained to orgasm from anal penetration as mine has. It requires 100% mental comfort on their part to do so.

The Cuckolding Trend

After all of this it’s vital to continue reinforcing that white women should only fuck black men, and that they should do so with the singular goal of bearing as many black babies as possible. Cuckoldry is mainstream now, and women are openly bragging about being black only, they are proud to display their QOS tattoo’s and are overtly sexual without any guilt or remorse.

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White women are openly advertising their sexual availability to black men, and making it clear that interracial relationships, open cuckoldry, and cheating with black men is perfectly normal. These women are thrilled if they are being pumped so full of African seed that their first pregnancy with a black baby is guaranteed. Just consider how popular it has become for the black men to explode deep in their costars receptive womb.

White men have been totally emasculated, they have been feminized, and totally neutered socially and sexually so completely that if you have not introduced chastity into your relationship then you should, because white boys have been conditioned to desire it in the same way white women have been taught to pursue interracial breeding.

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These weakened white male genes will be eliminated completely because white women will always side with their nations conqueror and have never had any biological tribal loyalty like all the other races do so within a few generations white women will have ensured their own genocide.

The future is very black.

A Reader Shares Her Experience with Male Chastity

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Real Women for Long Term Female Led Relationships

Once I started taking male chastity serious the results were enough to convince me that this could no longer be a game of fantasy that we played on a part time basis. I quickly realized that this was the reality that I wanted and I could no longer settle for what had become a mostly traditional marriage. It was a Friday night when I told Gary that chastity would be becoming a full time part of our marriage. I could tell he was stunned and a bit fearful. His hesitation, while annoying, was expected. He countered that maybe we could  gradually increase our chastity play and over time see how it was working for us, and then come to some mutually agreeable compromise. I laughed in his face at his naivety before adopting a serious tone again. I replied that this wasn’t a negotiation and that I in fact had already made the decision. His only options were to cooperate or face divorce. What was it going to be? His silence spoke volumes and before he could answer I firmly demanded that he stand up and remove his shorts. My tone was serious and confident. Without speaking he complied. two minutes later the click of the lock formally changed our marriage forever.

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This was over a year ago, and while there have been some bumps in the road, the decision to take permanent control over his most prized possession was the best decision I’ve ever made. I now wear one key on my ankle and keep the spare at my office. His releases are brief and at my sole discretion. In essence he has become the housewife giving me the free time to socialize with the girls at happy hours and spend more time at the gym without having to worry about getting home in time to clean house, do my laundry, or prepare dinner. His ability and willingness to provide me oral pleasure improved 500%. While some call this “enforced chastity”, it is important to remember that he was given the option of exiting the marriage. Something I was fully prepared to do. I am thankful that he chose to accept his new role along with the realization that he is no longer my equal. He occasionally asks me if I think we will ever go back to a “normal” marriage in which I reply this is normal. This is the new Modern Marriage.

Kiarra

Converting your man to a House Husband in a Female Led Relationship

Why The Rising Trend Of House Husbands And Their Working Wives Is Here To Stay

Original Article: https://www.bollywoodshaadis.com/articles/rising-trend-of-house-husbands-and-their-working-wives-2903

We have heard the terms- “stay-at-home wives”, “soccer moms”, “trophy wives”, etc. But what would be your expressions when we say, “stay-at-home husbands”, “soccer dads”, “trophy husbands”?

The Female Led Relationship Trend

With women sharing equal workplace responsibilities, they no longer allow their dreams and careers to wither after getting married or having a family. With gender equality triumphing, now when a couple is blessed with a child, the possibilities are noted, odds are measured, and worth is weighed, and only then it is decided who will take the burden of financial responsibilities and who will take over the household ones.

No more does a ‘house husband’ mean that he does not bring a pay cheque home. With technological advancement and numerous ‘work from home’ opportunities, many fathers are working from home, as well as taking care of their family. Similarly even artists, designers and writers work from home. The best example that you can find in our modern India, is the world-renowned, best-selling author Chetan Bhagat who is a happy stay-at-home husband. While his wife Anusha works full-time and has a very successful career, he quit his well-paid bank job to care for their twin sons and concentrate on writing.

Now, as more and more women are getting opportunities to explore their potential to its limit, in many cases they do come out to be the better financial option amongst the two partners. Being the better choice, they go out to face problems of the outside world while their men stay indoors to tackle the household problems.

Women looking for a House Husband

Women are much more cautious than men when it comes to handling household finances and expenditures. Being good at multi-tasking, a mother is better at handling certain problems, such as spending time with family, segregating family and work spaces, making necessary monetary sacrifices, and setting a budget, which in most cases a working man might fail to achieve.

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Benefits and Perceived Risks of “House Husbands”

  • A man sacrificing his career to give his woman a chance to realise her dreams is a message of equality. For far too long, women have suffered unfairly the conventional ideas of being “just a homemaker”, and sidelined their ambitions. It is now time for a change.
  • As we said before, women are much more careful when it comes to unnecessary expenditure and budgets. Women taking the financial burden of the family only means strengthening the family’s financial backing.
  • In many modern families, where both parents are working, kids are often left with maids or at day cares. This means, an additional burden on the family’s finance. With one parent staying at home, the expenditure of extra help can be avoided.
  • When couples swap the traditional roles of being the “breadwinner” and the “homemaker”, they begin to respect each other more. They understand the responsibilities and pressures that these roles bring with them. Once a man takes to the household chores, he respects the women around him much more.
  • Whether he becomes a househusband by his choice or through circumstance, socially this idea is still looked down. This leaves many men feeling powerless in their home as well as in the society.
  • When a man turns into a house husband due to certain unfavourable circumstances, it leaves him feeling weak and depressed. He links his “worth” to his inability to provide for his family’s financial needs. Economic dependence at times, leaves a man’s masculinity shaken as well.

Our suggestion to you ladies, talk to your husband openly without making assumptions of what they, or others, will say. You never know your Mr. Right might surprise you with his understanding and compassionate nature!

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