When I began his chastity training, we tries a multitude of devices. In all, over a year’s time, we probably spent over a $1000 trying to find the perfect device. Overall security was a must. I didn’t want him to have the ability to slip out of the device and cheat. Our relationship almost immediately changed for the better. The only downside to most of these devices were they couldn’t be worn long term, which was becoming more and more of an issue for me. Inevitably his complaining of discomfort would result in me unlocking him, which I hated to do. I did what I should of done a long time ago. I went to Google and literally did hours of research, read reviews, and even corresponded with like minded keyholders. The goal was to find a secure device and could indeed be worn for days at a time. Money wasn’t an object, as this was an investment in our lifestyle that would likely pay dividends for many years to come. No use on scrimping in this department. All my research led to about three devices that were consistently well reviewed by those with first hand experience. I settled on the above device – behold, the Bon 4M! As far as chastity devices go, it was near the top of the price scale, and rightfully so. The decision was made and on a lazy Saturday evening I found myself in front of my laptop, his credit card in hand, ordering this piece of sheer genius. $200 and 5 days later it arrived. I was not disappointed. The standard sized device (it comes in a smaller size too) was perfect for our needs. It’s all stainless steel and comes with four different rings. We experimented with the largest two and ultimately decided that the 2nd largest was just right for his average size package. His previous complaints about plastic rings being to sharp around the edges were resolved. I was and still am delighted with this purchase. I would say it’s the best $200 – plus tax – that I’ve ever spent. Although I only keep him locked for days at a time, we have gone as long as a week with no irritation or other ill results. I would highly recommend the Stainless Steel Bon 4m (there are several models of Bon) for any woman looking for a long term solution to male chastity. 

I even splurged and bought this beautiful Heart shaped pad lock: https://axovus.com/Heart-shaped-Lock-w-keys.html  It comes with keys suitable for wearing as jewelry

No, I don’t work for or receive any compensation from the makers of this device. My opinions are my own and based on real life experience. 

What is your favorite male chastity device?