CHASTITY
It is well know within BDSM circles that if you control the slave’s cock then you control the slave. Women who own male slaves have discovered that a denied and sexually frustrated male is compliant and submissive but a sexually fulfilled male is a lazy disrespectful man. So Mistresses have embraced the practice of male orgasm denial to limit the amount of orgasms their male has. This keeps him in a heightened submissive state. Orgasm denial can vary from the Mistress who allows her slave say one orgasm per week to those who think that one per month is sufficient for her male to keep his plumbing cleaned and his desire to serve at a maximum level. The male orgasm is a biological function that causes sexual release and relaxes both body and mind and is more like the eruption of a volcano than the waves of a rippling ocean that is the female orgasm. Thus men lose their desire to pleasure a woman after they have climaxed.
Keeping a male aroused but denied is the greatest and most effective technique a woman can employ for her own sexual fulfilment. Denying the slave orgasms is a real power rush and so easy to achieve. For the slave it is a constant reminder that his sexual desire, like everything else, is the property of his Mistress. It is her pleasure not the slave’s that is important.
The benefits of male orgasm denial become much more apparent outside the bedroom if the slave is locked up and denied permanently. He will remain in a constant state of submission and subservience knowing that pleasing his Mistress in everything is his only chance for the release of his sexual frustration.
Let me say categorically that the Mistress requiring total attentiveness and subservience from her slave must impose a regime approaching total permanent denial. The slave must be allowed no access to his cock, permitted no masturbation or orgasm and, if possible, not even be allowed to obtain erection. He must learn that as a subservient he has no rights to any sexual pleasures and exists to provide sexual pleasures for his Mistress. She can then further encourage her slave by offering say one orgasm per month but only if no more than a certain number of penalty points have been accrued by the slave in his general day to day servitude. There are no half measures where this is concerned so the woman who is serious about owning a real male slave should not shy away from total orgasm denial.