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Make it happen

As we say goodbye to 2017 and usher in a new year, there is no better time to to make fantasy reality. You’ve undoubtedly experimented and toyed with the idea of male chastity and have hopefully realized some of the benefits it brings. Now is the time to make it a real full time part of your relationship. I’ve mentioned before how chastity and orgasm control are the cornerstones top a successful Female Led Relationship. Join the thousands of other women who have turned fantasy play and part time fun, into a full time, permanent lifestyle. You’ve delayed it enough. Make the decision to change both of your lives for the better.

If you’re serious about making this happen, lock the cock tonight before the New Year begins. As you usher 2017 in he should be locked, shaved (if you prefer that, it sure helps him be more comfortable), and pantied. Put the key around your neck. Or on an anklet. As the ball drops and you have your first kiss of 2017 – you are doing so knowing that 2017 has the potential to be the year that roles are defined permanently. This can be a significant moment for both of you. A turning point. And if you are serious – there will be no going back. His submission to you will move from part time to permanent, Control of his cock is no longer an option for him. Make the decision. He should not even be able to achieve an erection, without your consent.

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Make sure you are both aware of the significance of that first New Year kiss and the few lingering moments as reality settles in. Fondle your key. Reinforce what he already knows. Be prepared for some difficult conversations. Some whining. Some complaints of pain or irritation. These are all obstacles that can and will be overcome. Celebrate his first 24 hours in chastity. It is truly a landmark occasion. Then his first week a huge achievement. A milestone indeed. Decide how often you want to permit an erection. What about an orgasm? Weekly? Monthly? Keep notes on his progress. You’ll soon learn when that sweet spot is. When does his submission to you max out? 

For most healthy and sexually active men, a monthly orgasm is reasonable. This doesn’t mean he can’t be released more often, but from here on out, those are your decisions, not his. 

Toss out or lock up any male underwear that he still may have. Watch his expression, his body language,his attitude as reality sets in for him. Explore and be aware of your own feelings. The feeling of power, authority, liberation. Be cognizant of the new spark in your relationship. Observe how the bond strengthens with each day. His love and admiration for you will grow, as will yours for him. 

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If you choose it to be, 2017 can be the year that all your wishes come true and you begin to mold your relationship into one you and thousand of other women have dreamed of. 

I wish you all a very happy New Years!

Being forced to shave his cock, lock it up, and wear my panties effectively stripped him of his manhood and gave it to me. You’ve heard how a chastized man loses his male swagger and the macho behavior disappears. It’s true. My husband comes home from work every day and immediately starts on the list of chores I’ve left him. I no longer look at him as a man, but more of a maid or even servant. I’ll love him forever, but his manhood is gone to me. I relish that I had the power to do that and I wanted to take it further. I don’t want him to ever forget his role in our marriage.

I wanted him feminized 

Now for us, it’s not practical to dress him up like a woman in heels and make up. He has a real job after all, but I did find other things I could do to further expose his feminine side and deepen his submission to me. I disposed of all his male hygiene products. Cologne, deodorant, even his Dove for men bar soap. I stocked our bathrooms with

COCO MADEMOISELLE soap from Chanel – for Women. It smells delightful and softens his skin. His deodorant? Secret for Women “Powder Fresh” scent. You know what they say “Strong enough for a man but made for a woman” lol. And finally, instead of a masculine smelling cologne (that real men wear), he now applies a squirt of whatever perfume I’m  using. Currently Ralph Lauren Pony Pink. I love giving him an extra squirt on the neck when we have a Saturday night date night. 

Hubby adapted pretty well to the change with minimal griping. His biggest concern was what I did with the nearly new bottle of $80 Calvin Klein Euphoria that he just bought. I told him I hated to see it go to waste, but I couldn’t have him wearing such a manly scent anymore, so I gave it to a co-worker in the office “Rex”, who is known as the office stud and has a bulge in his pants to back that up. I could see hubby’s heart drop. 

“Don’t worry baby – I told him you were allergic to it. He was very appreciative”

Hubby’s reaction earned him an extra week without orgasm – And I now find myself making up reasons to walk by Rex’s desk and smell hubby’s old cologne. 

She convinced him to wear the male chastity device for a one week trial period. After that, they would discuss and decide how to move forward. He reluctantly agreed. On day 6 she told him it was permanent. She knew she couldn’t go back to the way it was. He protested. She remained firm. There were tears. They weren’t her’s. After a tense few minutes she put her hands on his shoulders and pushed downwards. The conversation was over. He dropped to his knees and hugged her. His submission was official. Another modern marriage is born. 

When you have reached this stage in the relationship, there is no turning back for him. By shaving him, putting him in panties, and locking his cock the wife proves that she is the leader in the marriage. Forever. His only choice is to accept this fate and do his best to keep her happy in the hopes that she will reward him with an occasional orgasm.

When they go out shopping or to dinners, she will proudly wear the key to his cock around her neck. Or perhaps her ankle. It will be awkward for him. An embarrassing but constant reminder of his role in the relationship. He’ll remain pantied and cock locked on their outings. She should dispose of all his male colognes and insist that he uses her perfume as well as female deodorant. Masculinity is no longer in his makeup. Masculinity is for real men with real cocks. They both know. 

This is permanent. This is reality

In our case it was chastity or I was going to leave. The marriage had become boring and unpleasant. This was my ditch effort. Either he’d agree to hand over control of his orgasms to me and embark on a true female led marriage or I was prepared to walk out the door. sixty minutes later and after some spirited conversation, the lock clicked shut.

Life has never been better.

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Another proper fitting. Nice trimmed pubic area and no room for the penis to become erect. Allow him to pick the ring first, then go one size smaller. The male will always overestimate an in almost all cases a ring one size smaller then what he considers ideal, is the right fit. Once locked, secure the key. He will soon learn resistance is futile. There is no reason that he cannot wear this long term.