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Couples frequently start experimenting with male chastity at home for fun and to add a little spice to their sex lives. More and more often the wife or girlfriend quickly recognizes the benefits of locking their man and begin to insisting on longer durations of chastity. This is often more then he bargained for, but once she has gotten a taste of the power, the control, and the servitude brought on by male chastity, it is unlikely that his objections will overcome her desires or that she will ever accept a non chaste relationship with him. This is how it began for us and many others. What started out as bedroom play will evolve into a lifestyle. One that she leads, both in and out of the bedroom.

For the men that find themselves in this situation my advice is to just accept and go with it. Once she has experienced the changes that chastity brings out in a man, there is no turning back for her. It is okay to have apprehensions, but continued reluctance to comply with her wishes will eventually result in an ultimatum “Wear it or the relationship is over”. It can be a very difficult time in the relationship, or it can be a the best thing that ever happened. The only choice left is to abandon the relationship or learn to be obedient.

This is the point of no return.

Your life will be easier when you accept chastity and your relationship will flourish. You will take pride in yourself as you overcome each hurdle. Your first 24 hours being locked is a milestone that should be celebrated. Then she should shoot for three full days. Then a week. Some of the strongest relationships I know of have him locked up a month at a time. Acceptance is the key to success, and I encourage you to work with her and allow her to guide you down this path.

My guy has managed to survive week long periods of being locked for over a year now. At first he was uncomfortable with it both physically and emotionally, but in time he has come to accept chastity and physically he has adapted to continuously wearing the device. Shaving his pubic hair was one of the best things we did to make the device physically comfortable. We have recently moved to a monthly release schedule and our relationship couldn’t be stronger.

Domestically, he is a dream. I can’t remember the last time I washed a dish, vacuumed, or did a load of laundry. The housework is now his job. His weak area is cooking, but thanks to youtube, he has learned some basic techniques and has actually registered for some culinary classes that I am sure will further advance his value in the relationship and his own feeling of self worth. All this has allowed me time to workout after work (I’ve lost the 10lbs that I’ve been wanting to shed for 10 years!) or catch up with friends during the week. I am now training to run a half marathon, something I could never have done with my old schedule. Happy hours were never an option because there was so much to be done at home, but now I go out once, sometimes twice a week, and don’t have to worry about coming home to a messy house. As I have mentioned in previous post, my only regret is that I didn’t discover the benefits of a locked cock much sooner This is why I feel an obligation to share an encourage this lifestyle with others.

Of course there are other benefits and side effects that I won’t mention in this post, but rest assured once he is locked, the woman will be free to indulge in any activity that she so desires.

And in case you’re wondering, I love him more then I ever have.

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Being forced to shave his cock, lock it up, and wear my panties effectively stripped him of his manhood and gave it to me. You’ve heard how a chastized man loses his male swagger and the macho behavior disappears. It’s true. My husband comes home from work every day and immediately starts on the list of chores I’ve left him. I no longer look at him as a man, but more of a maid or even servant. I’ll love him forever, but his manhood is gone to me. I relish that I had the power to do that and I wanted to take it further. I don’t want him to ever forget his role in our marriage.

I wanted him feminized

Now for us, it’s not practical to dress him up like a woman in heels and make up. He has a real job after all, but I did find other things I could do to further expose his feminine side and deepen his submission to me. I disposed of all his male hygiene products. Cologne, deodorant, even his Dove for men bar soap. I stocked our bathrooms with

COCO MADEMOISELLE soap from Chanel – for Women. It smells delightful and softens his skin. His deodorant? Secret for Women “Powder Fresh” scent. You know what they say “Strong enough for a man but made for a woman” lol. And finally, instead of a masculine smelling cologne (that real men wear), he now applies a squirt of whatever perfume I’m using. Currently Ralph Lauren Pony Pink. I love giving him an extra squirt on the neck when we have a Saturday night date night.

Hubby adapted pretty well to the change with minimal griping. His biggest concern was what I did with the nearly new bottle of $80 Calvin Klein Euphoria that he just bought. I told him I hated to see it go to waste, but I couldn’t have him wearing such a manly scent anymore, so I gave it to a co-worker in the office “Rex”, who is known as the office stud and has a bulge in his pants to back that up. I could see hubby’s heart drop.

“Don’t worry baby – I told him you were allergic to it. He was very appreciative”

Hubby’s reaction earned him an extra week without orgasm – And I now find myself making up reasons to walk by Rex’s desk and smell hubby’s old cologne.

Women achieving physical superiority over males

For the past decade we’ve seen indisputable evidence that women are surpassing males in academics by a staggering margin. Women are being promoted into leadership positions at Fortune 500 companies at a greater rate then male counterparts. More households are being financially supported by career oriented women as their mates bring home a menial paycheck or even assume the role of stay at home husbands, where they take care of the housework, raising the kids, running the errands, etc. In fact, the meteoric rise of women on nearly all fronts is a clear indication of where our future lies. Subsequenlty, more and more couples are adopting a female led lifestyle at the insistence of this new generation of women. But wait, there’s more.

Unless you’ve been living under a rock this week, we’ve heard for the first time ever that TWO women have completed the same grueling Army Ranger training that 60% of men fail. It is clear that the last great bastion of male superiority, physical endurance and conditioning, is being challenged by the new generation of superior women.

Any idea who the best pound for pound fighter is in the world? For the first time ever it’s a woman, Ronda Rousey, who has shown us all that with determination, we can exceed our male counterparts at anything.

Women have now proven that we can be physically superior to our mates also. Frankly, it has become clear the future is rapidly shifting to a female led society. This new breed of woman will choose mates who recognize this paradigm and accept their roles. There will always still be Alpha men that we need to satisfy our other desires (for instance men with 8″+ cocks), but our mates will be those that satisfy our new superior status. Understand their role. And don’t question our leadership abilities.

The time to accept this fate is now. Women, the time to begin seizing what is rightfully yours is upon us. The future is being written and it is one of Female Supremacy