Couples frequently start experimenting with male chastity at home for fun and to add a little spice to their sex lives. More and more often the wife or girlfriend quickly recognizes the benefits of locking their man and begin to insisting on longer durations of chastity. This is often more then he bargained for, but once she has gotten a taste of the power, the control, and the servitude brought on by male chastity, it is unlikely that his objections will overcome her desires or that she will ever accept a non chaste relationship with him. This is how it began for us and many others. What started out as bedroom play will evolve into a lifestyle. One that she leads, both in and out of the bedroom.
For the men that find themselves in this situation my advice is to just accept and go with it. Once she has experienced the changes that chastity brings out in a man, there is no turning back for her. It is okay to have apprehensions, but continued reluctance to comply with her wishes will eventually result in an ultimatum “Wear it or the relationship is over”. It can be a very difficult time in the relationship, or it can be a the best thing that ever happened. The only choice left is to abandon the relationship or learn to be obedient.
This is the point of no return.
Your life will be easier when you accept chastity and your relationship will flourish. You will take pride in yourself as you overcome each hurdle. Your first 24 hours being locked is a milestone that should be celebrated. Then she should shoot for three full days. Then a week. Some of the strongest relationships I know of have him locked up a month at a time. Acceptance is the key to success, and I encourage you to work with her and allow her to guide you down this path.
My guy has managed to survive week long periods of being locked for over a year now. At first he was uncomfortable with it both physically and emotionally, but in time he has come to accept chastity and physically he has adapted to continuously wearing the device. Shaving his pubic hair was one of the best things we did to make the device physically comfortable. We have recently moved to a monthly release schedule and our relationship couldn’t be stronger.
Domestically, he is a dream. I can’t remember the last time I washed a dish, vacuumed, or did a load of laundry. The housework is now his job. His weak area is cooking, but thanks to youtube, he has learned some basic techniques and has actually registered for some culinary classes that I am sure will further advance his value in the relationship and his own feeling of self worth. All this has allowed me time to workout after work (I’ve lost the 10lbs that I’ve been wanting to shed for 10 years!) or catch up with friends during the week. I am now training to run a half marathon, something I could never have done with my old schedule. Happy hours were never an option because there was so much to be done at home, but now I go out once, sometimes twice a week, and don’t have to worry about coming home to a messy house. As I have mentioned in previous post, my only regret is that I didn’t discover the benefits of a locked cock much sooner This is why I feel an obligation to share an encourage this lifestyle with others.
Of course there are other benefits and side effects that I won’t mention in this post, but rest assured once he is locked, the woman will be free to indulge in any activity that she so desires.
And in case you’re wondering, I love him more then I ever have.
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