He hates that I wear this every time he’s locked – which is most of the time. The symbolism is becoming more and more recognized and accepted. The men at work see it and become uncomfortable, diverting their gaze and looking at the floor. The girls get a giggle when they see me wearing it. It’s sexy and powerful.
More and more people recognize the symbolism of a woman wearing a key around her neck or on her anklet. As time goes on, expect to see an increasing number of these public displays from proud women.
This is 90% of white penises. The only solution for such a pathetic member is a good secure lock and a wife or girlfriend holding the key. Something this size has no business being free.
It is well know within BDSM circles that if you control the slave’s cock then you control the slave. Women who own male slaves have discovered that a denied and sexually frustrated male is compliant and submissive but a sexually fulfilled male is a lazy disrespectful man. So Mistresses have embraced the practice of male orgasm denial to limit the amount of orgasms their male has. This keeps him in a heightened submissive state. Orgasm denial can vary from the Mistress who allows her slave say one orgasm per week to those who think that one per month is sufficient for her male to keep his plumbing cleaned and his desire to serve at a maximum level. The male orgasm is a biological function that causes sexual release and relaxes both body and mind and is more like the eruption of a volcano than the waves of a rippling ocean that is the female orgasm. Thus men lose their desire to pleasure a woman after they have climaxed.
Keeping a male aroused but denied is the greatest and most effective technique a woman can employ for her own sexual fulfilment. Denying the slave orgasms is a real power rush and so easy to achieve. For the slave it is a constant reminder that his sexual desire, like everything else, is the property of his Mistress. It is her pleasure not the slave’s that is important.
The benefits of male orgasm denial become much more apparent outside the bedroom if the slave is locked up and denied permanently. He will remain in a constant state of submission and subservience knowing that pleasing his Mistress in everything is his only chance for the release of his sexual frustration.
Let me say categorically that the Mistress requiring total attentiveness and subservience from her slave must impose a regime approaching total permanent denial. The slave must be allowed no access to his cock, permitted no masturbation or orgasm and, if possible, not even be allowed to obtain erection. He must learn that as a subservient he has no rights to any sexual pleasures and exists to provide sexual pleasures for his Mistress. She can then further encourage her slave by offering say one orgasm per month but only if no more than a certain number of penalty points have been accrued by the slave in his general day to day servitude. There are no half measures where this is concerned so the woman who is serious about owning a real male slave should not shy away from total orgasm denial.
This was sent to me by a reader almost a year ago. I’ve lost his/her contact info, or I would credit them, but this image has always remained one of my favorites. This device fits him well. I believe when shopping for a long term chastity device, this is the fit you should be looking for.
Her foot, while relaxed on his limp useless cock, is a demonstration of her control. Her dominance. Her liberation.
This is indeed a modern relationship that more and more couples are embracing. Accept this as the new norm. A growing number of women are enjoying the benefits of a Female Led Relationship, which I believe starts with Male Chastity http://r.ebay.com/qu5wXO
As we say goodbye to 2017 and usher in a new year, there is no better time to to make fantasy reality. You’ve undoubtedly experimented and toyed with the idea of male chastity and have hopefully realized some of the benefits it brings. Now is the time to make it a real full time part of your relationship. I’ve mentioned before how chastity and orgasm control are the cornerstones top a successful Female Led Relationship. Join the thousands of other women who have turned fantasy play and part time fun, into a full time, permanent lifestyle. You’ve delayed it enough. Make the decision to change both of your lives for the better.
If you’re serious about making this happen, lock the cock tonight before the New Year begins. As you usher 2017 in he should be locked, shaved (if you prefer that, it sure helps him be more comfortable), and pantied. Put the key around your neck. Or on an anklet. As the ball drops and you have your first kiss of 2017 – you are doing so knowing that 2017 has the potential to be the year that roles are defined permanently. This can be a significant moment for both of you. A turning point. And if you are serious – there will be no going back. His submission to you will move from part time to permanent, Control of his cock is no longer an option for him. Make the decision. He should not even be able to achieve an erection, without your consent.
Make sure you are both aware of the significance of that first New Year kiss and the few lingering moments as reality settles in. Fondle your key. Reinforce what he already knows. Be prepared for some difficult conversations. Some whining. Some complaints of pain or irritation. These are all obstacles that can and will be overcome. Celebrate his first 24 hours in chastity. It is truly a landmark occasion. Then his first week a huge achievement. A milestone indeed. Decide how often you want to permit an erection. What about an orgasm? Weekly? Monthly? Keep notes on his progress. You’ll soon learn when that sweet spot is. When does his submission to you max out?
For most healthy and sexually active men, a monthly orgasm is reasonable. This doesn’t mean he can’t be released more often, but from here on out, those are your decisions, not his.
Toss out or lock up any male underwear that he still may have. Watch his expression, his body language,his attitude as reality sets in for him. Explore and be aware of your own feelings. The feeling of power, authority, liberation. Be cognizant of the new spark in your relationship. Observe how the bond strengthens with each day. His love and admiration for you will grow, as will yours for him.
If you choose it to be, 2017 can be the year that all your wishes come true and you begin to mold your relationship into one you and thousand of other women have dreamed of.
I love seeing the chastised male giving her a pedicure. I wish there was a class to send mine to. He tries, but struggles in this area. Practice makes perfect
